Good Manners 18) On the authority of Au Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him), who said: The messenger of Allah (peace and blessing of Allah be upon him) said: "Allah does not judge according to your bodies and appearances,but He scans your heart and looks into your deeds" (Muslim)
19) On the authority of Iyaz bin Himar (may Allah be please with him) who said: The messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "Allah, the Most Exalted, has reveled to me that you should show courtesy and be cordial with each other, so that nobody should consider himself superior to another or harm him." (Muslim)
20) On the authority of Abdullah Ibn Amr Iban Al'Aas (may Allah be pleased with him), who said: The messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) neither talked indecently, nor did he listen to indecent talk. He used to say: "The best of you are those who have the best manners". (Bukhari and Muslim) Note: "Indecent talk" refers to language that is rude and offensive.
21) On the authority of Abu Musa (may Allah be pleased with him), who said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "When one of you asks for permission three times and it is not granted, you should stop asking for it and turn back." (Bukhari and Muslim) Note: 1: For example: knocking on someone's door. Note 2: This Hadit demonstrate once again that Islam is a complete religion that addresses issues such as good manners.
22) On the authority of Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him), who said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "Strictly avoid envy because envy consumes good deeds as fire consumes dry wood." (Abu Daoud)
23) On the authority of Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) who said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "Avoid suspicion, for suspicion is the greatest lie. Do not be inquisitive about one another, or spy on one another. Do not outbid one another with a view to raising the price. Do not feel jealous and do not hold grudges against one another. Do not backbite, but be the servants of Allah like brothers amongst yourselves," (Bukhari and Muslim) Note: To "backbite" beans to talk behind someone's back.
24) On the authority of Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) who said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "Make things easy and convenient, don’t make them harsh and difficult. Give cheers and glad tidings and do not create hatred." (Bukhari and Muslim)
25) On the authority of Mu'awiyah (may Allah be pleased with him), who said: I heard the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) saying: when you pursue the private life of people, you lead them to corruption." (Shu'ab Al-Iman - Baihaqi) Note: This Hadith says that if you constantly watch other people’s actions, it will cause interference in their behavior and they will no longer be themselves. Watching people constantly makes them do things only because they are being watched, and this encourages people to become unnatural and not be themselves.
26) On the authority of Aby Ayyub Al-Ansari (may Allah be pleased with him), who said The messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said. "It is sinful for a person to ignore his brother for more than three days. The best of them is who takes an initiative and pays solution." (Bukhari and Muslim) Note 1: "Brother" means fellow man. Note 2: The main point of this Hadith is to never let a dispute longer than three days without being resolved. Sometimes people tend to ignore each other after they have had a fight rather than working out the problem. The best person is the one who makes an effort to immediately resolve a dispute.
27) On the authority of Ibn Abbas (may Allah be pleased with him), who said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be; upon him) said to Ashajj Abd as-Qais: "You have two qualities which Allah, the most Exalted, likes and loves: One is mildness and the other is toleration." (Muslim)
28) On the authority of Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her,) who said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "Allah likes kindness in all things. (Bukhari and Muslim)
29) On the authority of Aisah (may Allah be pleased with her), who said: The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be; upon him) said: "Allah is kind and likes kindness. He bestows upon kindness that which He does not bestow upon harshness, or on anything else other than kinness and tenderness." (Muslim Note: "Bestows upon" means to favor.
30) On the authority of Aisah (may Allah be please with her), who said: The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: 'Softness beautifies things, and when that softness is taken away, they lose their glamour." (Muslim) Note: "Softness" means kindness.
31) On the authority of Nawwas bin Sam'an (may Allah be pleased with him) who said: The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "Virtue is good conduct, and sin fills your mind with guilt and makes you fear that other people will know your sins." (Muslim) Note: "Virtue" in Islam refers to any good deed: Virtue is the opposite of evil.
32) On the authority of Abdullah bin Amr bin Al-Aas (may Allah be pleased with him), who said: A man asked the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him): What is Islam is the best? He answered: "To feed people and to greet everyone (to say Assalamo Alaimkum) whether you know him or not." (Bukhari and Muslim) Note 1: "Assalamo Alaikum" means "Peace be upon you." Note 2: To say "Peace by yon you" to a neighbor or friend 1is a courtesy and a way of greeting in Islamic countries.
33) On the authority of Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him), who said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) Said: "Charity does not diminish wealth: Allah enhances the honour of one who forgives, and one who humbles himself for the sake of Allah, Allah exalts him in rank." (Muslim)
34) On the authority of Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him), who said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: " A rider should salute a pedestrian, a pedestrian should greet one who is sitting, and a small party should greet a large party." (Bukhari and Muslim) Imam Bukhari's versions says: "A younger person should greet an elder one." Note: Since Islam covers all aspects of life, including manners, there are rules of conduct described in this Hadith which should be maintained. For examples, it is courteous for a younger person to greet an older one.
35) On the authority of Abu Ummah Sudaiy bin Ajlan al Bahil (may Allah be pleased with him) who said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "The person who precedes others in greeting will be the closest to Allah". (Abu Daoud) Imam Tirmizi's version says: "The Prophet was asked: "O Messenger of Allah! When two persons meet each other, who should take the lead in greeting the other? He answered "The one who wants to be closer to Allah."
36) On the authority of Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her), who said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "Do not abuse the dead because they have found what they have send forward." (Bukhari) Note: This Hadith means that one should not mention the bad points of the dead because they must have reaped what they have sown (They have already met God and paid the price of their sins).
37) Bahz bin Hakim reported on the authority of his father who reported in turn from his father (may Allah be pleased with him), that: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "Woe to him who tells a lie in order to make people laugh, Woe to him, woe to him!" (Ahmad) Note: "To make people laugh" mans to entertain people
38) On the authority of Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him), who said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) once asked his companions: Do you know who a pauper is? The companions replied that a pauper is a person who has no money or property. The Prophet explained the point and said: "A pauper among my followers (Ummah) is one who will come on the Day of Judgement with a good record of Salat (prayers), Saum (fasting) and Zakat (payment of poor due) but who has also abused somebody; slandered someone; usurped the goods of another person, has killed someone or beaten another person. All the oppressed people will receive a part of the aggressors’ good deeds. Should they fall short of his aggression, then the aggrieved persons sins and defaults, will be transferred from them to hi, and he will be thrown into the Fire (Hell)" (Muslim and Tirmizi) Note: If a person sins in his life, all his good deeds will be given to those he sinned upon on the Judgement Day.
39) On the authority of Abu Al-Abbas Sahl bin Sa'ad Sa'edi (may Allah be pleased with him), who said: Once a person passed by the Prophet,. (Peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) The Prophet I(Peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) asked his companion who was sitting with him" "What do you think of this man, who has just passed this way." The companion said: " He is one of the richest: and by God if he proposes marriage to any woman, his proposal would be accepted. If he should recommend anything, his recommendation would prove effective." The Prophet kept quiet. Then another man passed, and the Prophet asked: What is your opinion of this man? The man answered: "Prophet, he belongs to the class of poor Muslims. If he goes for marriage, his proposal would not be accepted, if he were to recommend on behalf of any person, his recommendation would be rejected and if he were to speak, nobody would listen to him. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: " This man (the poor Muslim) is better than all the people of the world who are like the one you have just praised." (Bukhari and Muslim) Note: The main point of this Hadith is to not judge people based on how much money they have or on the status of their famil
40) On the authority of Jarir bin Abdullah (may Allah be pleased with him) who said: The Messenger of Allah (Peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: " Allah has no mercy on one who has no mercy for others." (Bukhari and Muslim)
41) On the authority of Jarir bin Abdullah (may Allah be pleased with him), who said" The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: " One who is devoid of kindness is devoid of all good." (Muslim) Note: "Devoid" means lacking or without.
42) On the authority of Abdullah ibn Mas'ud (may Allah be pleased with him), who said: The Messenger of Allah (Peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "May I point out to you the person who is not destined for the Fire, or whom the Fire of Hell will not touch? It will not touch the person who is close to the people, and who is soft, lenient and kind-hearted." (Tirmizi)
43) On the authority of Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him), who said: The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "When a Muslim inquires about the health of his sick brother or visits him, an angel would say: You are good, and your action is blessed and you have made an abode in Paradise." (Tirmizi) Note: "Abode" means a place.
44) On the authority of Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him), who said: The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "A man adopts a way of life according to that of his friend, so one should be careful about whom he chooses to be friends with." (Ahmad)
45) On the authority of Abdullah bin Masud (may Allah be pleased with him), who said: The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "One who has the slightest bit of arrogance in his heart, will not be able to enter Paradise" One of the companions said: "O Messenger of Allah! Some people like nice clothes and shoes, The Prophet said: Allah is elegant and beautiful, and He likes elegance and beauty. Arrogance is rejecting faith and considering others lower than yourself." (Muslim) Note 1: Allah is beautiful, so He likes people to look beautiful by wearing nice clothing and having elegant things, if they can afford it. Note 2: "Rejecting faith and considering others lower than yourself" are reason for getting sent to Hell. "Rejecting faith" means rejecting God and His teachings. "Considering others lower than yourself" means assuming yourself to be superior to others.
46) On the authority of Ibn Abbas (may Allah be pleased with him), who said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "He, who does not show tenderness to the young and respect to the elder, is not one of us." (Tirmizi)
47) On the authority of Abdullah bin Amr bin Al'Aas (may Allah be pleased with him), who said: The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: " A Muslim is a person who does not harm another Muslim with his tongue or with his hands and Muhajer (an avoider) is he who leaves (avoids) that which Allah has forbidden". (Bukhari and Muslim) Note 1: The forbidden things are for example: killing, stealing adultery, usury, gambling, drinking alcohol and eating pork. Note 2: The reason pork is forbidden is so that God can test people to see if they are listening to His teachings. Also, pork is pork is forbidden because pigs are considered to be unclean animals, and eating pork can cause diseases if no properly cooked. Note 3: Usury" in English means to charge an excessively high interest rate. For example, if someone is desperate for money and someone gives him a loan, but charges double or triple the usual rate of interest. However, in Islam, any small amount of interest is considered usury.
48) On the authority of Aba Qatadah Al-Harith bin Ribi (may Allah be pleased with him) who said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "I stand up for Prayers (in the mosque) intending to prolong praying. In the meantime I hear the wailing of a baby and I have to shorten my prayer, being apprehensive that my recitation of a long verse may disturb the baby's mother." (Bukhari) Note: The Hadith shows that a Muslim has to be kind and flexible with people even during worship and praying.
49) On the authority of Iyaz bin Himar (may Allah be pleased with him), who said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "The man who is merciful and kind hearted to every relative and to every Muslim, will be an inhabitant of Paradise." (Muslim)
50) On the authority of Aba Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him), who said: The messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him said: A believer develops six attributes regarding his relationship to another believer: He visits him when he is ill, attends his funeral rites when he dies, responds when he invites him, greets him when he meets him, says: may Allah have mercy upon you when he sneezes and seeks good in him, or speak good of him whether he is absent or present." (Bukhari and Muslim)
51) On the authority of Aba Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) who said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him said: "You will not enter Paradise until you have faith and you will not have faith until you love one another. May I direct you to a way by which you will love one another. Spread greeting and saluting between yourselves. Spread the practice of saying: "Peace be upon you" amongst yourselves." (Muslim)
52) On the authority of Aba Aana, (may Allah be pleased with him), who said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: He who leaves his place, and then comes back to it, has the greatest right to occupy that place." (Muslim) Note: This Hadith means that when a person is sitting, for example, in a cafeteria or theater, and leaves his seat for a few minutes, he still has the right to occupy that seat when he returns.
53) On the authority of Umar (may Allah be pleased with him), who said: The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah b e upon him) said: " No person should ask another person to vacate his place and then sit there. The people who already were there should make room and accommodate." (Muslim)
54) On the authority of Abdullah (may Allah be pleased with him) who said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "If you are in a group of three, two should not converse secretly to the exclusion of your companion for that hurts his feelings." (Muslim)
55) On the authority of Aba Ad Darda (may Allah be pleased with him), who said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "May I inform you of the deed that is better than the fast, the charity, and the prayer?" The Companions said, "Yes." Upon this the Prophet said: The deed is, reconciliation between Muslims, and rancor amongst them is destructive." (Aba Daoud) Note: This Hadith means that creating hatred between Muslims is very destructive. Reconciliation between Muslims is much better than charity, fasting, and prayer.
56) On the authority of Ibn Mas'ud (may Allah be pleased with him), who said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "You must speak the truth for the truth leads to virtue and virtue leads to Paradise. A man who always speaks the truth and means the truth, is recorded as truthful with Allah. Keep away from the lie for the lie leads to evil and evil leads to the Hell Fire and a man who continually tells a lie and intends to lie is recorded with Allah as a liar." (Bukhari and Muslim)
57) On the authority of Aba Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him), who said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "The thing which will make the majority of people enter Paradise is piety to God and good manners." (Tirmizi) Note: "Piety" Means righteousness, devoutness, and obedience to God.
58) On the authority of Aba Karima-al-Miqdam Ibn Ma'dikarib (may Allah be pleased with him), who said: The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be; upon him) said: "If a person loves his brother, he should inform him of this fact." (Aba Daoud and Tirmizi)
59) On the authority of Aba Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him, who said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "When any of you is asked to join in a meal, he should accept the invitation. If he is fasting, he should pray for the host, and if he is not fasting he should join the host." (Muslim) Note: The main point of this Hadith is to be sociable and to accept social invitations made by other people.
60) On the authority of Aba Saeed Al-Kudri (may Allah be pleased with him, who said: The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "Beware of sitting in public places." The companions said: Messenger of Allah, there is no other alternative for us but to hold our meetings there and converse with one another. The Prophet said: "If you insist on sitting there, then follow the rules of public places". The companions said: Messenger of Allah, what are the rules of public places? The Prophet said: "Lowering the eyes, removing harmful things from public places, saying: and peace be upon you too (in response to the greetings of others), commanding good and forbidding evil." (Bukhari and Muslim) Note: The main point of this Hadit is that people should not sit in public places unless they follow the rules of social behavior. These rules are: 1) Do not stare at other peoples clothing or bodies (lowering the eyes"). 2)If there is a harmful thing, it should be removed. For example, if you see a broken bottle or nails, you should through them in the trash. 3)You should respond to other peoples greetings. 4)You should "command good" by helping other people. 5)You should "forbid evil" by stopping people from harming other people or the property.
61) On the authority of Abdullah bin Amr (may Allah be pleased with him), who said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: Allah, the Merciful shows mercy upon the merciful people so show mercy upon the earthly creatures so that One who is in Heaven should show mercy on you." (Aba Daoud) Note: The main point of this Hadith is that if you are kind to other people, God will be kind to you.
62) On the authority of Aba Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) who said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: " On the day of Judgement, Allah the most High, will ask where those people are who love each other for the sake of My glory? This day I am going to shelter them in the shade provided by Me. Today there is no shade except My shade." (Muslim) Note: The main point of this Hadith is that the people who have a friendship based on their shared love for Allah, and not for materialistic or superficial things, will have special treatment on Judgement Day.
63) On the authority of Jabir (may Allah be pleased with him), who said: I cam to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) in order to consult him regarding my father's debt. When I knocked on the door, he asked, "Who is that?" I replied "me" he said, "me, me? He repeated it as if he disliked it. (Bukhari) Note: In answering people, one should always state his name and not reply only with "me". Note: Once again, this Hadith demonstrates how complete the Islam religion is. It covers manners and everything.
64) On the authority of Al-Hassan bin Ali (may Allah be pleased with him), who said: I learned the following from The Messenger of Allah (Peace and blessings of Allah be upon him): "Leave alone that which causes you to doubt, and adhere to that which is free from doubt, for truth is comforting and falsehood is disturbing." (Tirmizi) Note 1: 'Adhere" means to stick or affix. Note 2: The main point of this Hadith is to tell the truth at all times in order to have peace of mind.
65) On the authority of Aba Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him), who said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "A hypocrite has three distinguishing signs; first when he speaks, he tells a lie, second when he makes a promise, he breaks it; and third when something is entrusted to him, he misappropriates it". (Bukhari and Muslim) Note: A hypocrite is a person who claims to be a Muslim, but doe not follow the teachings of Islam.
66) On the authority of Abdullah bin Amr bin Al-Aas (may Allah be pleased with him), who said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "There are four habits which, if found in a person, make him a perfect hypocrite. If one of these traits is found in a person, then he has a sign of hypocrisy until it leaves him. These four characteristics are: when he is entrusted (with something) he embezzles; when he talks he lies; when he makes a promise, he breaks it, and when he quarrels, he quarrels in a nasty way and with bad manners." (Bukhari and Muslim) Note 1: "He quarrels in a nasty way and with bad manners,” means people should not argue in a nasty unfair way that damages other people’s character. For example going to court and verbally attacking the other persons parents and character. Note 2: "He quarrels in a nasty way and with bad manners" could also mean that if two friends become angry with each other, and break off their friendship, they should not reveal secrets or tell other people about their friends bad point. 67) On the authority of Aba Saeed Al-Khudri (may Allah be pleased with him), who said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "Anybody amongst you who notices something evil should correct it with his own hands. If he is unable to do so he should correct it with his tongue. If he is unable even to do this, he should at least consider it as bad in his heart, for this is the lowest degree of faith." (Muslim)
68) On the authority of Aba Mas'ud Uqbah bin Amr Al'Ansari Al Badri (may Allah be pleased with him), who said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: " "The reward of one who directs somebody to do a good deed will be equal to the reward of the latter." (Muslim) Note: "latter" refers to something that follows the former. Note 1: This Hadith refers to the situation where a person cannot fulfill a good deed himself, so he directs someone else to do it. For example, if someone initiates an idea for charity and encourages rich people to donate, that person gets the same reward as those who actually donate. Note 2: Another point of this Hadith is that if somebody asks you to donate to charity, and you can't but direct him to someone who can, you will get the reward.
69) On the authority of Aba Hurairah (may Alllah be pleased with him), who said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Alllah be upon him) said: "Powerful is not he who knocks the other down, Indeed powerful is he who controls himself in fit of anger." (Bukhari and Muslim)
70) On the authority of Aba Hurairay (may Allah be Pleased with him), who said: A man requested the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) to advise him. The Prophet said: " Do not be overwhelmed by anger." The man repeated his request for advice several times. Every time the Prophet said: "Do not be overwhelmed by anger." (Bukhari) Note 1: This Hadit was said as personal advice to someone who had a problem controlling his temper. Note 2: It is bad to get angry because other people's feelings will get hurt. Also, a person who is mad cannot think clearly and therefore, cannot make the right decision
71) On the authority of Aba Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him), who said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "Do you know that backbiting is? The companions said: "Allah and his Messenger know best: He (the Prophet) said: "Backbiting is talking about your brother in his absence and about what he hates." One of the companions said: "If what you say is true even then, you backbite him and if no such thing exists in him then you brought a false accession against him" (Muslim) Note 1: "Backbite" means to talk behind someone's back. Note 2: This Hadith instructs people to never say bad things about other, even if the bad things are true.
72) On the authority of Ibn Umar (may Allah be pleased with him), who said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) passed by an Ansari man who was counseling his brother on modesty (he was advising him not to be too shy or modest). The Prophet said: "Leave him and don't advise him like this, for modesty is a part of faith (Imam)" (Bukhari and Muslim) Note: "Ansari Man refers to Muslims from Medina during the time of Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him).
73) On the authority of Aba Hamza Anas Ibn Malik (may Allah be pleased with him), who said: The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him said: "None of you truly believed (in Islam) until he wishes for his brother what he wishes for himself". (Bukhari and Muslim)
74) On the authority of Ibn Umar (may Allah be pleased with him), who said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "Every Muslim is the brother of another Muslim. He neither oppresses him nor forsakes him (in the hour of distress). And he who tries to fulfill the need of his brother, Allah will fulfill his need. And he who alleviates the suffering of a Muslim. Allah will alleviate some of his sufferings on the Day of Resurrection. And he who overlooks the sin of a Muslim, Allah will overlook his sins on the Day of Resurrection." (Bukhari and Muslim) Note: The Day of Resurrection is a horrible day for everybody because everybody will be sweating and standing in heat worrying about judgement.
75) On the authority of Aba Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him), who said: The Messenger of Allah (Peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "Do not envy another, do not inflate prices one to another, do not hate one another, do not turn away from one another, and o not undercut one another, but be you, O servants of Allah, brothers. A Muslim is the brother of Muslim. He neither oppresses him nor does he fail him, he neither lies to him nor does he hold him in contempt. Piety is right here (and he pointed to his breast three times). It is evil enough for a man to hold his brother Muslim in contempt. It is absolutely a sin for a Muslim to kill another Muslim, or to take his property, or to destroy his honor." (Muslim) Note: In this Hadith the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) has mentioned three times that: Piety and faith are in the heart. Note: "Piety" means righteousness, devoutness, and obedience to God..
76) On the authority of Aba Hurarah (may Allah be pleased with him), who said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: " Part of someone being a good Muslim is his leaving alone that which does not concern him: (Tirmizi) Note: The main point of this Hadit is not to interfere in other peoples business.
77) On the authority of Aba Mas'us Iqba Ibn Amr Al-Ansari al-Badri (may Allah be pleased with him) who said: "Among the words people obtained from the previous Prophets are: If you have no shame (self respect), then do as you wish." (Bukhari) |
